Friday Sex Talk

drinking

How to have sex drunk Yes now this might seem like a weird one to write about but as a tequila and sex enthusiast myself, people should know how difficult it can be to mix the two together. You think … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

inappropriate

Thoughts you’re not meant to have, but get. Things that pop into your head during sex are often inappropriate,  mundane or sometimes funny. And they probably fall into these three categories. As well as the dirty thoughts you’re meant to … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

how important is sex

Not one to rehash old sex talks but every week this comes up in my email box. If I talk about sex so much, how important do I think it is? How important is sex in a relationship? It’s what … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

naked things

Things you should never do while naked. Being naked is great. You can quote me on that, Effi Mai, 2013. And there are lots of things you should do naked. Showering for example is an activity to partake in without … Continue reading 

Filling bras & Crying

Filling bras and crying

Things you’ll probably might start doing once you’ve been with someone a while. There’s always stuff that when you fancy a person, you’re never going to do the things in front of them. They’re usually slightly disgusting things involving bodily … Continue reading 

Forced Romance Week

valentines week

So Valentines is this week. Not that you’d know. I mean it’s not advertised on every channel or every poster in the Tube or every other word that comes out of a smug couple’s mouth. For couples it’s a time … Continue reading 

F is in fact a difficult letter to make titles with.

gay parenting

What a snow week. Britain has shut down. Trains have stopped, cars have stopped, buses have stopped and people are stealing the trays from McDonalds to use as sledges. And it’s so lovely to see groups of people; neighbours, friends … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

sex in the snow

Reasons we have sex (– part Two) And a bit about Snow since it’s actually snowing in Britain Today. Snow is a lot like sex, you never know how long it’s going to last. So I wrote part one (http://fisforr.com/2012/04/28/friday-sex-talk-2) … Continue reading 

Five Or More Years Between You

dating someone older

Dating Someone Older Now this is probably one of the most personal FemaleFemale posts I’ve written just because I’ve got a lot of experience in it having dated women quite a bit older than myself. And by a lot, I … Continue reading 

Forever Yours

writing

How to write a Love Letter If you’re too scared to talk to someone than writing to them may be your only option. Apart from mime, but the look of a stripy top and white gloves was so last year.. … Continue reading 

Forward Thinking

food for sex pic

What’s in store next Well it’s been a bit of a mental year really. As mental as putting your cat in a tumble dryer because she was bit damp. That sort of mental. It’s had all the Nightmare scenarios of … Continue reading 

Fall in Love with…. AMiTY

Amity

AMiTY is a one woman band. And that’s not a figure of speech, she’s actually a one woman band. She’s my kind of musician because she makes noises out of random metal things as well as recording bits of her … Continue reading