The Night Watch by Sarah Waters “Helen opened her eyes and gazed into the luminous blue of the sky. Was it crazy, she wondered, to be as grateful as she felt now, for moments like this, in a world that … Continue reading
Moving from F onto G. Getting to it is sometimes quite a mystery. And as much as we’d love some sort of treasure map or at least clues as to where G marks the spot, there never is. So you’ve … Continue reading
When do you say I Love you? It gets to that time in the relationship where you know you should say it, wait for them to say it, or both ignore it like the awkwardly British people we are and … Continue reading
Sex Parties – Something you should try out or something to never think about? After writing this column for a year, I get invited to a lot of different sorts of events. Ones that if you lived with your parents … Continue reading
Meeting the Friendship Group Meeting your partner’s friends is a very important thing to do in a relationship. Ridiculously important. It’s like remembering to give the house elf a sock important. These are the people who your partner will bitch … Continue reading
My time/Why you need to get to LBeach LBeach in Germany was a baffling place. Because it was a festival with 4000 women spending a lot of time together, and it wasn’t bitchy in any way. Imagine that. No really … Continue reading
Getting in the Mood I’ve talked before about what to do if your partner isn’t feeling like sex, but what do you do if you’re never in the mood? These are some little ways you could try to get in … Continue reading
Thoughts you’re not meant to have, but get. Things that pop into your head during sex are often inappropriate, mundane or sometimes funny. And they probably fall into these three categories. As well as the dirty thoughts you’re meant to … Continue reading
Bijou: The Cocktail Social for Gay Women Bijou is a sophisticated ladies night. And so of course I had to be all sophisticated. And as sophisticated ladies do, I put on a party dress and aimed to drink cocktails and … Continue reading
How you know you’re in love It’s meant to be a lovely emotion. But if you’re falling for someone who has no clue about your feelings you can start the long slow rolling snowball of emotional hell where tequila is … Continue reading
Not one to rehash old sex talks but every week this comes up in my email box. If I talk about sex so much, how important do I think it is? How important is sex in a relationship? It’s what … Continue reading
Is there really such a thing as the one? There’s someone for everyone. People always say it. Even the little leprechaun looking woman who sits on the park bench talking to pigeons might find a lovely lady who also speaks … Continue reading
