Friends and Bitches

meeting the friends

Meeting the Friendship Group Meeting your partner’s friends is a very important thing to do in a relationship. Ridiculously important. It’s like remembering to give the house elf a sock important. These are the people who your partner will bitch … Continue reading 

Festival of pure fucking Joy

l beach

My time/Why you need to get to LBeach LBeach in Germany was a baffling place. Because it was a festival with 4000 women spending a lot of time together, and it wasn’t bitchy in any way. Imagine that. No really … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

how to get in the mood

 Getting in the Mood I’ve talked before about what to do if your partner isn’t feeling like sex, but what do you do if you’re never in the mood? These are some little ways you could try to get in … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

inappropriate

Thoughts you’re not meant to have, but get. Things that pop into your head during sex are often inappropriate,  mundane or sometimes funny. And they probably fall into these three categories. As well as the dirty thoughts you’re meant to … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

how important is sex

Not one to rehash old sex talks but every week this comes up in my email box. If I talk about sex so much, how important do I think it is? How important is sex in a relationship? It’s what … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

naked things

Things you should never do while naked. Being naked is great. You can quote me on that, Effi Mai, 2013. And there are lots of things you should do naked. Showering for example is an activity to partake in without … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

strap ons

Sex Toys for the first time… Strap on guide When thinking of getting a sex toy for the first time, the strap on is often the first thing you’ll think of buying. It’s because it’s something extra to add to … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

pillow queen and others...?

Sex that you could have possibly had This came about after quite a bizarre conversation involving wine. And of course as most of my sex talks go, this will part one. If you’re a lady loving lady then you might … Continue reading 

Forward Thinking Britain

gay marriage debate

They said yes….what just happened?! The gay marriage debate. The good, the bad and the Alice-in-wonderland ugly. I do have a horrendous cold so I apologize for the sound of my voice. And also for the mention of vomit. And … Continue reading 

Flapjack in my Purse

divas 200th issue

And sadly, that’s not a euphemism This week I’ve been in and out more than the hokey cokey. By in, I mean in to work where I did a very professional job of breaking the photo copier and writing my novel … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

ssexy songs

Sexy Songs “My mind is telling me no but my body my body’s telling me yes.” With the suggestion from Lucy and her knowledge of the music industry, this Friday we will look into the music that you could get … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

sex in the snow

Reasons we have sex (– part Two) And a bit about Snow since it’s actually snowing in Britain Today. Snow is a lot like sex, you never know how long it’s going to last. So I wrote part one (http://fisforr.com/2012/04/28/friday-sex-talk-2) … Continue reading