Friends and Bitches

meeting the friends

Meeting the Friendship Group Meeting your partner’s friends is a very important thing to do in a relationship. Ridiculously important. It’s like remembering to give the house elf a sock important. These are the people who your partner will bitch … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

inappropriate

Thoughts you’re not meant to have, but get. Things that pop into your head during sex are often inappropriate,  mundane or sometimes funny. And they probably fall into these three categories. As well as the dirty thoughts you’re meant to … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

how important is sex

Not one to rehash old sex talks but every week this comes up in my email box. If I talk about sex so much, how important do I think it is? How important is sex in a relationship? It’s what … Continue reading 

Finding Soul Mates

soul mates

Is there really such a thing as the one? There’s someone for everyone. People always say it. Even the little leprechaun looking woman who sits on the park bench talking to pigeons might find a lovely lady who also speaks … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

naked things

Things you should never do while naked. Being naked is great. You can quote me on that, Effi Mai, 2013. And there are lots of things you should do naked. Showering for example is an activity to partake in without … Continue reading 

Family Things

meet the parents

Holy Christ on a rainbow bicycle. It’s Thursday again. And I have updated the blog pitifully in the past weeks.  And by pitiful, I mean I haven’t uploaded a single thing apart from Friday Sex Talk. The week has passed … Continue reading 

Friday Sex Talk

valentines sex

Gifts for Next Week Ah Valentines Day. It’s only six days away now. A romantic day full of love, dinners for two and scattered rose petals. This is a day that you can spoil your girl more than you do … Continue reading 

Forward Thinking Britain

gay marriage debate

They said yes….what just happened?! The gay marriage debate. The good, the bad and the Alice-in-wonderland ugly. I do have a horrendous cold so I apologize for the sound of my voice. And also for the mention of vomit. And … Continue reading 

Flapjack in my Purse

divas 200th issue

And sadly, that’s not a euphemism This week I’ve been in and out more than the hokey cokey. By in, I mean in to work where I did a very professional job of breaking the photo copier and writing my novel … Continue reading 

Forever Yours

writing

How to write a Love Letter If you’re too scared to talk to someone than writing to them may be your only option. Apart from mime, but the look of a stripy top and white gloves was so last year.. … Continue reading 

Festive Festival Night

lfest chistmas

Lfestive I was late as I am often am to everything so I walked into Lfest at the Nightingale during a Gangdam style competition. If you don’t know what this is then you first have to watch the music video … Continue reading